I too have been struggling with difficult and complicated emotions during this time, when my second child went off to college several states away. I really acknowledged my feelings, and sorely needed time to allow them to be expressed, but having to function sufficiently to navigate around an unfamiliar city, catch a plane, and go home, didn't really allow me the space and time I needed to mourn. I had to wait, but I also knew what was waiting for me. At times there is certainly necessary to put your emotions aside so you can function -- but we also need to take the opportunity experience them.
The guides came through with a message about this yesterday, and I feel strongly that it was not just for me, but for all the people I know who are going through a rough patch now. We all will at some point.
Dark nights of the soul do give way to the light again if you allow the darkness to pass and don't hang onto it |
It is not up to me to change anyone's story, or decide for them that they have to confront their emotions. But when the emotions and memories come up, I can listen, honor, and witness this part of our human journey. I can hold a safe space for someone else, and I must hold that container for myself as well.
Thank you Ellen for these words. We need to remember them daily. You have a beautiful spirit. I love you.
ReplyDeleteWow<3 you are one beautiful person sister! These words are like poetry... they speak to and from the heart... I love you and I miss you dearly <3
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